Quotes on Fellowship

The pious fellowship permits no one to be a sinner. So everyone must conceal his sin from himself and from their fellowship. We dare not be sinners. Many Christians are unthinkably horrified when a real sinner is suddenly discovered among the righteous. So we remain alone with our sin, living in lies and hypocrisy. The fact is that we are sinners!

He who is alone with his sins is utterly alone. It may be that Christians, not withstanding corporate worship, common prayer, and all their fellowship in service, may still be left to their loneliness. The final breakthrough to fellowship does not occur because, though they have fellowship with one another as believers, and as devout people, they do not have fellowship as the undevout, sinners.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Quite simply, our deep gratitude to Jesus Christ is manifested neither in being chaste, honest, sober and respectable, nor in church-going, Bible-toting, and Psalm singing, but in our deep and delicate respect for one another.

Brennan Manning

The way we are with each other is the truest test of our faith. How I treat a brother or sister from day to day, how I react to the sin-scarred wino on the street, how I respond to interruptions from people I dislike, how I deal with normal people in their normal confusion on a normal day may be a better indication of my reverence for life than the anti-abortion sticker on the bumper of my car.

(I lost the attribution on this one, but I think it comes from the The Ragamuffin Gospel by Manning above.

One Response to “Quotes on Fellowship”

  1. Jacob says:

    Snowballing off of Bonhoeffer…
    Our group is discussing what the church should be, but isn’t. One thing we’ve mentioned is intimacy (i.e. openness, honesty, confession). When you have an intimate relationship with someone, one of the many things you know about them is their past and current sins and weaknesses. The fact that I don’t know these about many of my fellow churchmen perfectly illustrates that “intimate” is something the church isn’t. We just don’t want people to see us for who we really are (or were).

    Being what the church should be is hard (which is why it doesn’t happen so often).